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Old 12-14-2011, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted by dukie564

ever think she's trying to get you to fight FOR her instead of with her?
Amen to that.
Old 12-14-2011, 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted by LoveMy89Anya
while shes off screwing another guy, and saying that she hates me and never wants to see me again, and is refusing to come to counselling or to meet up with me to try to work things out?

i admit, its a thought, but highly doubtful. shes screwy in the head is whats wrong. But i AM fighting for her...im doing everything in my power to get her back.
I can tell you from experience you are NOT doing everything in your power to get her back. Let her go. Love her from a distance. Stop arguing with her. Stop trying to contact her. Go to counseling by yourself. Apologize for hurting her without expectation of a return apology. Tell her you understand why she wants to leave. YOU screwed up. Blaming each other will get you divorced. Accepting responsibility for what YOU did wrong is all you can do. It's up to her what she does. I strongly urge you to go to a marriage counselor or a pastor (they're free). Best of luck.
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Originally Posted by dukie564
**** yea Buffalo Wild Wings!
You beat me to it lol. I'm up there at least once a week. We should have a mini gathering there sometime.
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Originally Posted by Pudgy Fingers

I can tell you from experience you are NOT doing everything in your power to get her back. Let her go. Love her from a distance. Stop arguing with her. Stop trying to contact her. Go to counseling by yourself. Apologize for hurting her without expectation of a return apology. Tell her you understand why she wants to leave. YOU screwed up. Blaming each other will get you divorced. Accepting responsibility for what YOU did wrong is all you can do. It's up to her what she does. I strongly urge you to go to a marriage counselor or a pastor (they're free). Best of luck.
Very true words here. Your situation will not be resolved over night. It is going to take a bunch of time. You have to be patient.
Old 12-14-2011, 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Passt
You beat me to it lol. I'm up there at least once a week. We should have a mini gathering there sometime.
Agreed. Tuesday is cheap wing day!
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Jeeps, cheap wings....music to my ears haha great idea
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too bad it's impossible to find parking there on a Tuesday.
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Originally Posted by dukie564
too bad it's impossible to find parking there on a Tuesday.
Oh....let me get all excited then shoot it down
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eh...IKEA has tons o parking
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I would be up to heading down once the jeep is up and running.
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anyone have a garage or backyard I can store an axle in temporarily?

I found a c8.25 down in VA with 4.56 gears and a lock-rite installed for $150.
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Originally Posted by dukie564
anyone have a garage or backyard I can store an axle in temporarily?

I found a c8.25 down in VA with 4.56 gears and a lock-rite installed for $150.
That's the one I'm selling lol if you want it better hurry I've got many calls.
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lol wait what? really?

what's wrong with it lol?
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Originally Posted by dukie564
anyone have a garage or backyard I can store an axle in temporarily?

I found a c8.25 down in VA with 4.56 gears and a lock-rite installed for $150.
the guy selling it just posted it on here a couple pages ago...
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Dang I was too late lol. Great price! Just needs a yoke seal right?


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